4/28/2005

SEARCH WITHIN YOUR HEART...

........What you truly want out of life cannot be found in the world,because what you truly desire,what you truly long for, can only be found within your self.It does not exist and cannot be found outside of you.
........You must search within your heart and not take for granted what your heart offers,for it is the only true messenger that you have....

4/22/2005

*** B A D H A B I T***

.....Being addicted to doing something that's not nice means having a bad habit.Everytime you think about stopping ,you seem to want to do it more and more.People get addicted to their habits by practicing them.The less you practice a bad habit, the less important it becomes to you.

....Some tips for breaking a bad habits are: make up your mind to quit,ask for help and get active.Do lots of interesting things like bloggging, watching tv, reading books, go out with a friend, make your self busy and you wont think so much about what you should'nt be doing.Reward your self when you know you're on the right track.Plan a special treat.Do something new you really enjoy.Feel good about the new you.....

It is'nt easy but if you really want to stop, you can do it.Are you ready to quit now???

4/16/2005

*** M I N D ***

...Sometimes I have trouble making up my mind.And when I do,I worry about making a mistakes.Everyone has trouble making decisions now and then,but if beating around the bush is getting to be a habit,you may need to spend sometime thinking about how you feel about everyday things.Learning to make little decisions is a big step toward making big ones.

How about you,do you know your own mind???

4/13/2005

***E M O T I O N S ***

....Everytime I am experiencing powerful sad emotions,and whenever I'm having personal troubles,I feel as Im the only person on the planet who has problems.I look around and often I see people who seem to not have a care in the world, but I believe in the saying that* no body is perfect* .You can barely know what is going on inside other people, and it comforts me to know that I am not alone. Everytime I feel confused,irritable, and stressed out ,specially now that I feel down, I just convince and tell my self I'm in the majority. It's all part of life and there's plenty to be learned from these emotions.

....There maybe downside to these emotions but theres also an upside as well.The challenge I know is to discover their positives.............

4/12/2005

***T I M E ***

.......There is a time for everything,and a season for every activity.There are many things we want to do, but there does'nt seem to be enough time.
Well, you'll know you're trying to do too much when you meet your self coming and going. Time is something everybody has,but not everybody knows how to use it.You dont have control of all of your time. What we all need to do is make a better job of time management.

......Its hard to see how time flies without taking a look at the way you manage your hours. You can do this by making a personal time chart,and its a good idea to make a weekly calendar too.

How about you,are you making the most of your time???

4/11/2005

B R A I N C L U T T E R

........Our lives can be quite complex.While we attempt to deal with one problem or situation,the rest of life keep happening to us.Sometimes we have so much going on,we cant sort through the noise and clutter to even try to work out our confusion about a particular matter.This only makes the situation worse!

We need to put our selves in the proper frame of mind for ending our confusion and I think the keys to conquering clutter are to decide what to get rid of and then find storage ideas for whats left.But it is also helpful to understand why our clutter accumulated in the first place...

How about you, how do you deal with brain clutter?



4/10/2005

***R I S K S***

Don't be afraid to encounter risks.It is by taking chances that we learn how to be brave...Don't shut love out of your life by saying it's impossible to find.the qiuckest way to receive love is to give love;the fastest way to loose love is to hold it too tightly; and the best way to keep love is to give its wings........do you agree with that???

4/09/2005

***P H O B I A ***

Im not really sure what i'd be posting today.I hope this one interests you....

...... There is nothing wrong with being cautious.No one will swim in a crocodile- infested waters.No one enjoys earth quake or floods. Watch out ! Feelings are part of your body's defense system.It is perfectly natural to be afraid now and then, but when you have a fear that controls the way you think and act,it is interrupting your life and wasting your time.This kind of fear is called .......phobia......

...... I have a friend whose always afraid of different things.Her fears makes her feel nervous,tense,worried, and even panicky.Do you have any fears that make you feel thesame way? If so ,then i guess the best thing to do is tell God your private fears,list them one by one,then give them over to him.He'll know what to do with them...................

4/08/2005

LIFE IS UNFAIR ! ?

We always say the word (its unfair) everytime we are down and in trouble.When we are counting on something,or we're sure we deserve it,its hard to loose out.Sometimes life does seem unfair.It's important to remember though, that you're not the only one with a sad story.Disappointments come to everyone.How you handle yours makes the difference........

How do i react to unfairness:?

I stay in my room and dont talk to anybody.I eat chocolate bar. I phone a friend to talk to.I think about how unfair life is.Go out with a friend and do something fun.Im worried about what happened.I ask for advice from someone i trust ,and Im sure tomorrow will be a better day!

How about you?????


Prayer:This has'nt been the best of days Lord,I really feel let down.Please give me your hand and help me up.Thank you for giving me the courage to try again.

4/07/2005

DESTINY..

Believe that you have a distiny,the innate ability,to become all you expect of life.Experience all of life's peaks and plateaus.
Find the meaning of life's struggles and accomplishments.There you will find the meaning of life and life's work.Trust in your deeply hidden feelings, because they show the person that you are.Take hold of each opportunity,and make the most out of it!

4/06/2005

RELATIONSHIP

Relationship can be quite confusing.Sometimes we stay in a relationship we know we are not happy or satisfying for us.Other times,we may walk away from a relationship we know to be a good thing,but self-sabotaging behavior causes us to leave it all.We dont always know however,if a relationship is right or wrong.We may simply feel confused and in great need to sort through the confusion for some answers.This is what happened to dene.....

Dene is 32 yr old,had been married with Ralf for 6 years now but Dene is still overwhelmed with confused feelings.She could'nt even put her finger on what specifically she was so confused about.She started asking her self if she really like Ralf.Theres a saying we can love someone and not really like him.She get a peace of paper and divided it into two.Started writing and answering the questions (what i like about him and what he wants in life?)and on the other half she answered the question(what i dont like about him and what i want in life?)

When Dene finished the first sheet,she was stunned.She was sure her answers are real and honest and they told her plenty.She discovered that there were more things about Ralf she did'nt like than what she did like.In fact she sudden realized she found somethings about him to be quite irritating and incompatible with her own way of thinking and being.

I guess her subconcious mind was making these comparisons,telling her something's was'nt right. She had to get into her own and find out what her real feelings were.She thought they were compatible but i guess it was just Dene making compromises to keep the relationship together.

Faced with marriage as a real possibility,her inner feelings begun to make her self known.This is how she became confused.
Dene still love Ralf, but when she realized that it was dissatisfied about certain aspects of their relationship,she thinks that getting married was'nt the right thing to do. Do you agree with her?Now that they have two kids,do you think Dene have to let go Ralf or stay with the relationship where in she knows she can never be happy???????

COURAGE!

IM NOT REALLY SURE WHAT I'D BE POSTING TODAY AND ENDED UP WITH THE THING, CALLED COURAGE...............................


COURAGE IS NOT FEELING FREE FROM FEAR;IT IS FACING THE FEAR YOU FEEL.COURAGE CAN ONLY COME THROUGH EXPERINCES WHERE WE RUN A RISK----TAKE A CHANCE----WE WIN SOME AND WE LOSE SOME.DON'T ISOLATE YOUR SELF FROM HELP,BUT DO ISOLATE YOUR SELF FROM NEGATIVE FORCES AND NEGATIVE POSSIBILITIES.

NO PERSON CAN REALLY LOVE HIMSELF UNLESS AND UNTIL HE BUILDS AND BOOSTS THE SELF WORTH OF OTHERS.
INSECURE PEOPLE HIBERNATE. LAZY PEOPLE LUXURIATE.WOUNDED PEOPLE COMMISSERATE.FOOLISH PEOPLE PROCRASTINATE.WISE PEOPLE DEDICATE---THEY ARE THE DO IT-NOW PEOPLE......

4/05/2005

MY LOVELY KIDS!!!

IM VERY LUCKY TO HAVE KIDS WHO GRADUATED WITH HONORS AT SCHOOL......ERKOM GERICHO MY ELDEST SON,(6) GRADUATED IN KINDER GARDEN 2 WITH 4 MEDALS AND ERICSON GEOFREY (5),MY YOUNGER SON GRADUATED IN KINDER GARDEN 1 WHO HAPPENS TO BE THE SALUTUTORIAN IN THEIR CLASS.HE EVEN RENDERED A SPEACH WHERE IN HE GAVE THANKS TO ALL HIS TEACHERS FOR ALL THE SUPPORT AND KINDNESS DURING THE SCHOOL YEAR.DID'NT FORGET TO MENTION HIS LOVE FOR ME AND HIS DAD AND OFCOURSE HIS BESTFRIEND ,HIS KUYA E.G............
TOO BAD I WAS'NT THERE DURING THE GRADUATION CEREMONY, AS IM BUSY HERE ,WORKING ABROAD TO EARN FOR A LIVING......BUT STILL IM VERY HONOR AND PROUD THAT GOD HAS GIFTED ME 2 INTELLIGENT AND LOVELY KIDS.THE MORE I'M INSPIRED WORKING AND ITS REALLY WOTH IT!.........I LOVE YOU E.G AND ERICSON AND I MISSED YOU SO MUCH! I HOPE TO SEE YOU SOON!

(I HAVENT SEEN THEM FOR A YEAR AND 3 MONTHS NOW)........

4/02/2005

BEGIN AGAIN...

One of the best things we can do in our lives is this,BEGIN AGAIN.....

BEGIN TO SEE YOUR SELF AS YOU WERE WHEN YOU WERE THE HAPPIEST AND STRONGEST YOUVE EVER BEEN. BEGIN TO REMEMBER WHAT YOU WORK FOR AND WHAT WORKED AGAINST YOU AND TRY TO CAPTURE THE MAGIC AGAIN. BEGIN TO REMEMBER HOW NATURAL IT WAS WHEN YOU ARE A CHILD- TO LIVE A LIFETIME EACH DAY.......

BEGIN TO FORGET THE BAGGAGE YOU HAVE CARRIED WITH YOU FOR YEARS:THE PROBLEMS THAT DONT MATTER ANYMORE.THE TEARS THAT CRIED THEMSELVES AWAY AND THE WORRIES THAT ARE GOING TO WASH AWAY ON THE SHORE OF TOMORROW'S NEW BEGINNING....TOMORROW TELLS US IT WILL BE HERE EVERY NEW DAY OF OUR LIVES;AND IF WE WILL BE WISE, WE WILL TURN AWAY FROM THE PROBLEMS OF THE PAST AND GIVE THE FUTURE AND OUR SELVES THE CHANCE TO BECOME THE BEST OF FRIENDS....

SOMETIMES ALL IT TAKES IS A WISH IN THE HEART TO LET YOUR SELF...........BEGIN AGAIN.