9/22/2005

YOUR JOB TO BE.....

It can be a hard thing to stand alone and say this is what i need to do for me. Yet it doesn't really make sense for us to be what other people want us to be..It's their job to be who they are and its your job to be who you are.

It is easier to understand a situation when we see it from a greater perspective.So try to consciously watch both your own and other peoples reactions through a telescope instead of microscope.Dont take it personally or try to hide who you are!

HAVE A GREAT WEEK-END TO ALL ! :-)

7 comments:

Ayoye said...
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Chantal said...

A great weekend to you too, with these beautiful words.

Paul said...

In general I defininitely agree. But things aren't always as clear-cut:

One of the big problems with having a family member with severe chronic illness in America, unless you happen to be wealthy, is that this line you draw gets blurred. Caretakers must compromise the idea of doing what's best for them or face the guilt of neglecting/abandoning someone they love.

Sidney said...

I agree with Paul there are situations where the big picture don't help. You need to step down and look through the microscope at the level of the individual human being.

Jyotsna said...

I tend to agree with this..our perceptions are often delusory and each one of us has to live our lifes for ourselves,carving our own identity.And yes looking at things from a broader/higher perspective only reveals to us the varied dimensions :)
Nice thoughts

pieterbie said...

I will.
Have a good weekend too.

Jay said...

Sound advice!